LEARNING DEEPLY, December 1-31, 2022

 Here's a new year thought and challenge to us, Bible-believing Christians, something counter-cultural, almost bordering on faith deconstruction:

When our Savior said, "to give and lend without expecting in return", because our God is a Person too, whom we believe think and feel the same way we do, can we also expect it of our tithes and offerings that we give to our churches and congregations today, and our donations for other causes?

(Because if we are truly blessed, we are not just recipients, but channels of grace, with almost nothing left for ourselves, but to pass on every little blessing to the next person; we are rivers of living water, not a stagnant pond, lake, nor the Dead Sea, and living is best done fulfilling that purpose.)

#BeingRiversOfLivingWater

#CallMeRioIvy

 

Like Caleb, who wholly followed the Lord, may we too allow our beliefs and convictions to bear fruit in our lives; by treating others with respect and consideration, by not only connecting with them when we need funds and favors, but to truly care about other people's issues and concerns, their needs and situations, while keeping a wholesome distance, respecting boundaries and not being unnecessarily nosy... For kindness and concern may have less visible markers than lots and boundaries, but it is nonetheless real; and if we have to show we care, we act without saying much, we give without expecting anything in return, we support and encourage without patronizing, we are honest and truthful and not gaslight, and if anybody asks, we render generously to those deserving, with added wisdom and loving rebuke to those who need it most...

#Joshua13and14

#HappyDecember31

 

One of the reasons I love doing the grocery is because one learns a lot, and is able to immediately confirm so... Like a quick and casual convo during our queue at the supermarket CR a few days ago, where some elder Moms are saying that in the two-cubicle room with only one that is functioning, regular and prompt maintenance should be done... They then compared the store to the bigger one with a wider store area, more stocks, and definitely more comfort room cubicles... But then immediately followed it up by saying they would always choose to shop at the smaller store because it is brighter, cleaner, stocks are well-arranged, and the store area itself smells good, while implying that the bigger store is completely the opposite... And we all nodded our heads knowingly... But this does not apply to these stores though, for as stated by management experts for several years now, it is not the price nor quantity, but the customer experience that is the selling point... So that whatever product one is offering, be it a tangible good or service, however cheap or costly, quality is established by how satisfied the customer feels, which come not from being treated as exclusive VIPs or being given high-end brands, but even for ordinary, unnamed, irregular customers, to be afforded equal respect, dignity and courtesy... May we learn and live addressing these needs in our daily lives, especially in our interactions with other people too...

#FridaySupermarketLearn12302022

 

History is always written by the victors, and so we never know how the victims and casualties felt; that even though they believe differently and belong to a different culture, they too may have dreams, have families and friends they care deeply about, and would have wanted to live in a better world, and face a better future... Such is the irony of the Good Book, that also unabashedly records evil and destruction... So therefore, may we not lose the lesson: that cruelty and evil does not pay, that mercy and compassion will always save the day, that rather than being 100% literal, we learn instead from the motivations, the thoughts, emotions, actions, lusts and desires of the ancient peoples, in order for us now to act more mature, with humility and wisdom, with faith, patience and endurance, and that we might share and live at peace with one and all, regardless of gender, nationality, belief and conviction...

#Joshua11and12

#HappyDecember30

 

It seems offensive and deconstructive to learn that in the formation of the legacy of our faith, the ancient fathers went on a genocidal rampage... But these are not unique in the annals of history; for apart from Christianity and Judaism, other faiths also were recorded to have gone through such oppressive and shameful, immoral and violent eras... Yet, one lesson should not be lost: that with wisdom and humility, peace can be attained, such as that initiated by the princes of Gibeon, and that faithful allies can indeed help save the day against more powerful enemies... To our modern culture, we rightfully denounce the culture of violence and greed; but may we always uphold what is true, good, just and right, and endeavor to keep the peace...

#Joshua09and10

#HappyDecember29

 

Genocide, no matter and especially if justified as religiously mandated, is always evil... And even if the word says that in this case, the destruction of Ai and mass killing of its people has heavenly sanction, yet, it comes at a great price... For anything done with greed, complacency, pride and selfishness, will always have lasting tragic consequences... Events and periods in history like that mentioned in these passages are by no means unique and even now is still happening in all parts of the world, but may we not lose the greater lessons unsaid: that life can only be meaningful if lived according to the will if our Creator, that we be concerned with the needs of others as we take care of our own, that we do not discriminate but be hospitable both to our kin and strangers, that in whatever aspect of life, we consistently remain humble and respectful, sensitive to the will of our God, and quick and courageous to do whatever is right and just...

#Joshua07and08

#HappyDecember28

 

Especially to our modern-day perspective, taking other people's lands and lives is evil and wrong; yet it seems that many today, like some narcissistic leaders and powerful people, may still have been stuck in such ancient and outdated mindsets... And so we learn the greater lesson of the second great circumcision operation and the taking of Jericho; that no matter how much we have accumulated for ourselves things, wealth, fame, status and people, in one fell swoop, when we least expect it, they can all be taken away, regardless of whether we believe the one taking them be deserving or not... May we realize that we are mere stewards, and whatever our hands find to do, whatever may be the fruit of our labors, are not something to brag about or feel ourselves great in; for our whole duty consists in using those things to support our families and loved ones, to care and help our less privileged fellow man, to remain humble and responsible, in replenishing creation and making this world better... In spite of the challenges, may we still continue to prove ourselves faithful, diligent and true...

#Joshua05and06

#HappyDecember27

 

The ark and the river stones... Like in Joshua's time, we today will also know if we have aligned ourselves with the One greater than all, if we have established His Covenant in our hearts, treating it preciously and faithfully, and putting it on a special pedestal over our lives like the Ark, taking care that none of our greed, pride, selfishness and sense of entitlement rule and reign above that of doing our best to fulfill His will, and making sure that our sensitivity, our care and concern for others manifest in good manners, in courtesy and respect whether by word or deed, or by giving thanks, acknowledgement and recognition to whom these are due and at the right time... For that is how we can tell our future generation when they ask what our faith and tradition means, whatever these may be; that these are not done for show, for likes, for status or just simply to make ourselves feel good... For like the Jordan River stones, our deeds and words, their rewards, and their effects on others, will be etched in stone and last beyond our lifetimes; so that even if we ask forgiveness for offenses, there is forgiveness, but there will always be eternal consequences... May we live our days being careful and pondering our every word and deed, whether by commission or negligence, omission or forgetfulness...

#Joshua03and04

#HappyDecember26

 

Quite a lot of people are crowding around the gate of a rich man's house this morning, eagerly waiting for the promised rice dole-outs... Not saying much here, but to borrow and appropriate a cousin's shared post on waiting for Mary's water to break before doing the Christmas shopping... Please, if we must be charitable, let's not wait until Mary's post-partum to help put food on the table of our poor and indigent neighbors, the so-called informal settlers that we consider an eyesore 364 days of the year... Because true generosity is timely and relevant...

#HaveAMerryChristmasMorning

 

Being strong and of good courage, come not from the status, position, nor the appointed or elected office... For as in Joshua's case, as an example for all humanity, it is daily meditation, deep understanding and faithful obedience of the law, whether that be spiritual, secular or civil and political... For understanding and obedience, far from being brainless and coercive, are actually the test of faith and conviction... One may have all the trappings of beauty and wealth, or even the illusion of intelligence and qualifications, but the one most deserving is one who is diligently law-abiding, not for fear of punishment or retribution, but as a fruit of the heart that is inherently loving, generous, caring and concerned of all life and accountabilities, of life's greater purpose and design, and of the One who breathed life to us all... May we be proven faithful and true, may we be proven obedient and wise...

#Joshua01and02

#HappyDecember25

 

The blessing and the settlement... One knows that one has received something good and lasting, if apart from the joy and gladness, there is peace and acceptance: that though we might be in places, in statuses and situations, and with people whom we want and love, at times, these will not be enough to stop us from feeling lonely and nostalgic and sad... For dwelling in safety in these passages comes with dwelling alone, like the proverbial loneliness of being lonely on top... Still, if we can settle our hearts to accept and make do with what life has given, beyond this season and beyond, we will realize that what we have and will be blessed with in the future come not only for our hopes and efforts, but because who we are being built up to be will soon meet the challenge of becoming the greater person that we are destined to become... And so, whether the realization of our hopes and dreams lie in this present life in the form of being settled and spending our days with our worthy companions, or even beyond it to eternity, we can have deep and lasting peace that when the dust of confusion and pride are settled, we are always at the right time, and the right place, and with the right people...

#deuteronomy33and34

#HappyDecember24

 

To live strong and of good courage, is to run counter to the culture of our time: that upholds fame and wealth as measures of success rather than a generous life; that promotes unhealthy body shapes and sizes as desirable rather than a joyful and prayerful attitude; that puts a premium on looks, on financial prosperity and social connections, rather than humility and spiritual and emotional growth; that prioritizes people's affirmation more than truth, wisdom, understanding and discernment, peace and love... As we all approach the twilight of our years, may we not waste each moment by passing on to the next generation, the virtues and good characters we try so hard but fail to live by, and in humility, to acknowledge our own inadequacies that they may learn from our mistakes... Like Moses who learned to let go when it was the right time, may we learn to let go of the spotlight we shine on ourselves, and let our God alone be glorified in how our lives have become...

#Deuteronomy31and32

#HappyDecember23

 

To see and hear, and not ignore... Just as our Savior also said later that from those who were given much, much is demanded, so also like the ancient Israelites, from those of us who have been blessed with wisdom, with a good education, with material means, with abilities and talents, it is demanded and considered a lifelong and worthy call to give back and be part of something greater... One hears of the phrase, "active concern"; and we learn that no matter how good and qualified we think we may be, how high in our careers and levels of society we may go, however much and many wealth, connections, relationships, degrees and certifications we may have received, these are all worthless if we cannot even give a moment of our time to teach and encourage, to give clarity and wisdom, to stand up for truth, justice and right... May we heed our God's call to choose life, to choose obedience and goodness, to care and be actively concerned, so that our life's journey will not be meaningless, but rather be filled with warmth and light, with hope and joy, grace and love...

#Deuteronomy29and30

#HappyDecember22

 

The blessing and cursing are really vivid, raw, wonderful and terrible in these passages... Unfortunately for many of us, we think they only apply to ancient Israel, when in fact today, people around the world are experiencing them too, which speaks of their universality... May we learn that greed, corruption and wickedness does not pay; and though we may condescend, flatter, or cover up our selfish, envious and cruel acts and intents, but we reap the effects nonetheless... For no matter how high or far we may go in life, we share the same mortal fate with those lower than us whom we abuse, oppress or take advantage of: we are all accountable to our Maker, and equal in His eyes, and it is best we heed His words and conduct our affairs in honesty, in goodness, in truth, in peace and love...

#Deuteronomy27and28

#HappyDecember21

 

Strange as some ancient customs may seem to us today, but at the heart of all laws and ordinances is to remind people to live with justice and fairness, and to treat each one with dignity, respect and equity... However, goodness cannot really be mandated, because it is innate, and because it is a choice, regardless of laws and penalties... May we be people who do good from the heart, not just for show, who respect other people's rights and boundaries because we genuinely care and not because we fear the repercussions of our offenses... For being humane cannot be expressed in flattery or condescension, but in the way we speak, what we say and the message we put forth, how we respect other people's time and effort and their situations... Because life is not all about us, but about each and every one of us in equal, lowly standing before our God and Maker...

#Deuteronomy25and26

#HappyDecember20

 

Rather than misinterpreting these passages as an ancient God's discrimination against people with disabilities, or those less able, or socially and civilly ostracized and disadvantaged in life, one may choose to understand His aversion to willfull mutilations, and avoidable situations that demean anyone's personhood... For indeed, one must, as far as it is within our power, take care of our bodies and members, that we may be in the best condition to worship Him and serve and take care of our fellowman... For in the succeeding passages, He commands justice, generosity and right, regardless of who we are, our gender and nationality... May we learn to accept and live the truth, that fulfilling the purpose of our existence means that we always deal fairly and honestly, to respect each other's rights and persons, to remain humble and giving, to encourage and give hope, to stand up against oppression and abuse, to defend what is right and just, and to spend the rest of our days in courage and persistence; that no matter the trials and difficulties, we remain steadfast, strong, full of inspiration and joy, faith and love...

#Deuteronomy23and24

#HappyDecember19

 

Proper boundaries... Good thing that we are not anymore living now like the ancients, where any offense on infraction to boundaries and morals are meted with death... However, the effects of such offenses by no means have decreased in severity, for always, any act of disrespect, disregard, insensitivity, favoritism and nepotism, lasciviousness and instigation, are always demeaning and offensive, destructive to character and hope, ruinous to morals and good relationships... May we learn to respect each other's healthy boundaries, and conduct ourselves in dignity and honor, in love, peace and grace...

#Deuteronomy21and22

#HappyDecember18

 

Living with honor, dignity and respect takes humility and courage... For a naturally humble and brave person, full of wisdom and love, respects other people's issues and concerns, their time and effort, their potentials, preferences and dreams... While the proud one is ignorant and stupid, only looking out for itself, considering itself more superior, entitled and privileged, over-estimating its capabilities and qualifications, too greedy and selfish for recognition and rewards... May we learn from the ancients, from history, from our very own lives: that pride goes before destruction and fall, but that humility and courage, aside from being their own rewards, bear fruit in building up other people's lives and keeps their souls too...

#Deuteronomy19and20

#HappyDecember17

 

No prior presumptions... May all our dealings with our God and others be fair and just, honest and true, full of wisdom, goodness, hope and love, and bear much fruit... For presuming we are the only one special, entitled and privileged, smacks of ignorance and stupidity, and is the prime recipe for comeuppance and downfall... But like what was written long ago, those that remain humble yet fights for what's right, will always find a lasting legacy, their dreams and good futures come to pass, the good message and word enriching their lives, a truer understanding and acceptance, more true friends and more loyal companions through life...

#Deuteronomy17and18

#HappyDecember16

 

Generosity is the true measure of a person... How we manage and dispense with the things entrusted to us--whether they be material or temporal, spiritual and intangible, even our very lives and the things we most value--tells a lot about our eternal destiny... For a closed and greedy hand, a selfish spirit that disregards the needs and concerns of others in favor of its own, excusing itself as too busy or that there is never enough time, will only find that their most prized possessions become like quicksilver in their hands; while the generous hand, brave enough to open itself up, to let go and give, to consider that other people may have more pressing and weightier matters, and that they can actually and will help, even just in the giving of knowledge, truth, comfort and hope, will find that what they want and need most will be more than amply provided for, and will be added unto it, blessing, love and well-wishes from good and well-meaning friends and loved ones... May every day be a day of jubilee for us, and may we learn to give, to love, to encourage, to bring peace and hope and joy...

#Deuteronomy15and16

#HappyDecember15

 

The God we know, and what's inside of us... Thankfully, our Savior opened our eyes to the truth, that it is not what goes inside of us that makes us unclean, but what comes out--in words and deeds... For we may claim to be religious, spiritual, holy, knowledgeable and qualified; but lacking the actions motivated by genuine mercy, truth and honesty, peace, joy, love and grace, we are merely empty gongs, unemotional robots in life, without substance, right minds and judgments... Indeed, it is not what we claim to have and believe, what we have achieved and accumulated that defines our lives; but we find meaning, purpose and fulfillment, if our faith and belief bear fruit through us, in blessing and encouraging others, in responsible stewardship of life and creation, in making this world better than when we first came to it...

#Deuteronomy13and14

#HappyDecember14

 

It could have been better, nicer, happier; we could have been more complete... But the Christmas that is now, because we're still alive healthy and hopeful, will always be the best...

#HappyHolidays

 

A blessing and a curse... Because wherever on earth we choose to settle, we always live in community: accountable to our Maker, and responsible towards our fellowman and families... And how life turns out to be is a direct effect of these; for we might struggle so much in life, to rise economically, socially and materially, to gain degrees and qualifications, to receive awards and recognitions, to put ourselves above others and claim superiority and mastery, yet, we are a failure if we cannot even teach our children respect and good manners, if we cannot be truthful and honest, if we let greed, pride and envy rule our motives and perspectives... Therefore, a blessing and a curse only awaits--the blessing to one who remains humble, tolerant, transparent, understanding and patient, while the curse to one who thinks too highly of themselves to believe that they could do no wrong and that there is no need for them to consider other people's issues and situations yet insist that they be indulged, accommodated and entitled to privilege at every turn...

#Deuteronomy11and12

#HappyDecember13

 

Worthy of the Word... Just like the ancient Israelites to whom the Ten Commandments were given, have to prove themselves worthy of the word and law they have received from God, in our time today too, in a time that we claim to be socially and technologically advanced, we need to prove worthy of the education, the degree and certification, the knowledge and skill we have received: by living lives that uphold truth and justice, respect for people's basic rights and boundaries, consideration for each other's needs, issues and situations... For wisdom is proved right by its actions, even to our acceptance and care, support and encouragement of those whom we believe are weaker and under-privileged... For it is how we act towards the least of us that shows our love and respect for our God... For how can we claim to believe in His Name whom we cannot perceive but only imagine, to be called as His people, if we cannot be truthful, respectful, honest, humble, transparent and accountable with those with whom we can see and commune with everyday?...

#Deuteronomy09and10

#HappyDecember12

 

God's great transformation is in how we understand Him... Are we to believe that the same God our Savior and the apostles proclaim in the New Testament to show no favoritism is the same One who espouses intolerance against those who believe differently and observe age-old culture and traditions separate from the One He just recently declared to ancient Israel on record?... The thought alone speaks of spiritual and philosophical deconstruction which any believer lacking in maturity and wisdom would be shattered by... Yet if we can understand that sometimes His words get misinterpreted and twisted to suit the pride, greed and selfishness of some of His so-called messengers, we begin to see behind the layers of programs, canons, creeds, traditions, observances, holidays and ordinances that cloud and cover His heart and true message: that He is good, that His mercy is everyday new and enduring, that He wants us to live the good life according to His terms (that unburdenly demand humility, respect for others, honesty, accountability for our lives and the lives of others, selflessness, generosity, genuine concern and care for the weak among us, and gratitude for everything life and creation has to offer); then we realize that this is the same God, proclaiming in words each generation can only understand, grasp and relate to in their era, but collectively manifesting His great hand of mercy and compassion, hope and encouragement and joy, leading to persistence and endurance in the face of trials and tribulations; and if we should choose and accept, we can believe that we will spend eternity not in torment or in forgotten unremembered states, but with Him in glory forever...

#Deuteronomy07and08

#HappyDecember11

 

Respect is the key... In a time of great troubles and difficulties, in life's everyday challenges, how we manifest respect of God and others show maturity, wisdom, breeding and a good education not just from the academe but the great university of life... Not power-tripping or gaslighting, not demanding entitlements and privileges, not imposing or demanding recognition and acknowledgement, communicating with others clearly and honestly, not throwing our weight around, not thinking that because we think we know better or in a higher career or social position, everyone beneath us must grovel before us and give in immediately to all our demands--all show that we have truly learned, that we are truly actualized, and that we are truly happy and at peace... For when we respect our God, His commands for us to do right and to respect others, and when we consider the needs of others and not impose upon them or demand that they give us immediately what we want, then we do not earn their ire, their derision and cursing, their hate and resentment... And these truly, if we have the wisdom and courage, patience and understanding to uphold and live by, make life for us go well and good...

#Deuteronomy05and06

#HappyDecember10

 

From where we are, to seek the Lord with all our hearts and souls... Is to recognize that we need not work so hard to impress others with our religiosity, nor do so much each day, each week to show our efforts at trying to appear holy and evangelistic; but to take heed, to spend our moments in quiet wisdom, to live each day in an attitude of gratitude, stillness, peace, and in an essence of confidence that our God fights for us; if we only take heed; if unlike many, we do not let greed, envy, pride, selfishness, and discontent take over us, and we don't let it compel us to fill our hours with trivialities and issues that have no lasting and real value, to the point that love, humility and grace had no more room... May we understand more deeply, what is our real purpose and capabilities, and learn to trust where our Creator and Savior is leading us...

#Deuteronomy03and04

#HappyDecember09

 

When one fails to learn the lesson of history, one is bound to repeat its mistakes and wrong judgments... Which may be the reason why Moses reminded the people of what went through in their journeys... And which is a good reminder for us today too... May we always keep in mind that stubbornness does not pay, that insisting our opinions are right in the face of overwhelming logic and facts will only prove painful and embarrassing in the end... Let us understand and remember the consequences of our pride and ignorance, and live the rest of our days in humility, circumspect, wisdom, love and gratitude...

#Deuteronomy01and02

#HappyDecember08

 

The basics of equity... Whether it be in the matter of settlements, offending and taking lives, inheritances and compensations, there is a lot to learn from the ancient tribes; since truth is enduring, and human emotions and concerns remain unchanged throughout history... May we always act with justice and fairness, accountability and mercy, wisdom and grace; so that as we go along in life, as far as it is within our power, each of us receive and give what is properly due and right from and toward each other...

#Numbers35and36

#HappyDecember07

 

Life nomads... The over-arching goal of my generation and of generations past is to achieve the dream: having a stable job, owning a home, settling... But it seems harder for many now due to the realities of the times, hence, for most, challenges and a call to reordering must be necessarily addressed to survive sane, to thrive, to go on strongly... And we learn of the same dreams in the life of the post-Egyptian-captivity Israelites too, albeit at the cost of taking lands already inhabited by others of a different culture... Yet, as criminal as this may seem, one must not miss the lesson that until today, we must all, regardless of nationality and faith, still work hard to establish our inheritance... But this time, not in physical dwellings, but in the collective psyche, commerce and civilization of humanity--that of contributing value, bringing meaning, and providing purpose and direction... Yes, we are life nomads, though many might be settled and in good places, but none Immortal and invincible to live forever and stick to old, outdated, less-informed norms, practices and philosophies... Because only when we move, from the tents of old ways of doing, to the new one of openness, knowledge and wisdom, can we perceive and discern all the manifold goodness and graces our Creator has endowed on those who refuse the inertia of the comfortable and familiar, to one that is constantly challenging, changing and like His boundless mercies, new...

#Numbers33and34

#HappyDecember06

 

Our sins will find us out... It seems unacceptable that the same God whom our Savior said created all and loved all people, who sent Him for eternal, global salvation, could sanction such state-sponsored genocide as that done to the Midianites; with such acts as models of religious persecutions, wars and genocides done throughout history and until the modern times... Yet the Bible was written by humans, and only God knows and can judge the wisdom and judgment behind such events... But one thing for sure though, that Moses' words should be heeded by us today: that in everything we do, even if we justify it as right and just in the name of fulfilling our mission to proclaim, evangelize and convert others to our beliefs and ways of thinking, if done with dishonesty, abuse, oppression and injustice, is a sin whose effects we reap throughout our generations... Yes, our motivations, our pride and ignorance, our greed and selfishness will find us out, giving us no peace, and giving misery and despair not only in our time but in our children's time too... May every word we say, every deed, every thought be driven only by our love for Him, and by genuine concern that all of creation be taken cared of well, and that no soul, regardless of race, age, gender, beliefs and persuasions be wasted and brought to perdition...

#Numbers31and32

#HappyDecember05

 

Of offerings, burdens and vows... One really cannot claim to be a believer and just do it for show, for ultimately, the fellowship and community will be found out, discerned and unravel... Likewise, one cannot claim to be good, yet, at every opportunity, only think of what they want, how to promote themselves and their aims, how to impress upon others their so-called moral- or spiritual- or clique/group- or congregational- ascendancy, without considering other people's needs, issues and situations... May we learn to truly live our faith and conviction; so that each time, every moment, what we offer to our God be pure and free of selfish intentions, and what we are that we share to others be free of malice, undue advantage, injustice and greed...

#Numbers29and30

#HappyDecember04

 

With all the requirements on continual burnt offerings, one would think that the Israelite God in the ancient times did not inform the people on the concept of air pollution and environmental degradation and depletion... Yet, the Bible being written by men, could also fall into a few shortcomings for a seeming lack of universal wisdom in some places, but not enough to diminish its eternal value to change lives and save souls... However, we must remember that the same Being who did not want inheritances go to waste by decreeing that daughters in a family of no sons, and even near kinsmen have equal rights, may be telling us something else... That in our modern times, sacrifices and a reordering of priorities are called for in our relationship with Him, with each other, with wealth and status, and with life itself... That it is only when we truly act with justice and fairness, with honesty and transparency, with wisdom and love, that our faith and person truly finds fulfillment--not in tasks and activities, in the hectic busyness of achieving our goals and dreams... For life must take its course, and in this journey, it is often not our outward acts and achievements that matter, but our hearts, motivations and intents, thoughts and attitudes, and true character that have real weight...

#Numbers27and28

#HappyDecember03

 

Some would argue in the beginning of these passages, against a harsh and merciless God, who decreed death on intermarriage... But one may soberly reflect that the premise here is whoredom, an ancient word that we come to mean today as premarital sexual relations, unplanned marriages and even pregnancies, and unions not blessed by the community and spiritual leadership... Sadly, though far less harsh and silent, we see the same misery on those who insist on having their own way, marrying into someone they want so much without considering the person's personality, attitude and character; in short, people who insist on stubbornly committing their lifetimes on someone others see and believe are not a good match... Not to discriminate though, but really, my high school teacher was speaking truth when she said, our characters in high school stay with us for life; that no matter how hard we wish for it to be, people will not magically change and develop ambition to level with our selfish and prideful standards, assertiveness and wisdom just because they are already married; and that we must be really careful, and think thousands of times about spending the rest of our days with somebody else... For like each of the ancient Israelite clans, our God values each of our lives as precious; and surely, we can believe that He doesn't want us to spend it in misery and despair for our wrong decisions and judgments, and our blindness and pride, only to suffer loveless, toxic, abusive and unfaithful unions... May we learn that we can't be more careful, and we need to be a million times more careful, when dealing and uniting with another life, another family, another clan...

#Numbers25and26

#HappyDecember02

 

God does not lie... Even if there be some who only think of Him as an abstract concept, yet, for the many of us who believe, we know and are convinced that God is pure and holy, that He has truth, and always makes good on His promises... May we always abide by His ways; so that no matter how miserable life gets, we can perceive and experience cursing that is turned to blessing, our mournings into dancing, our sorrow into joy... For wherever His spirit dwells, there lies hope, courage, faith, love and peace...

#Numbers23and24

#HappyDecember01

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